How to Tell if She Wants You to Make a Move
If you have a crush on a girl, you might be wondering if she feels the same way. Sometimes, it can be hard to tell if she’s just being friendly or if she’s sending you signals that she wants you to make a move. Luckily, some signs can help you figure out her intentions and decide what to do next. Here are some things you should know:
– You might see her use flirty body language to signal her attraction to you, like frequent glances, sustained eye contact, and subtle, coy touches. She may also stare at your lips, which could be an invitation to come closer or even kiss.
– She may communicate her wish for you to make a move verbally by giving you compliments and recalling small details about your life. She may also hint that she’s single, ask about your personal life, or openly start flirting with you.
– To show you that she’s interested, she might do thoughtful things for you. This can include dropping everything to do you a favour, giving you small gifts for no reason, or making an effort with her appearance. She may also be eager to help you with anything you need.
– She may try to spend as much time with you as possible. She may go out of her way to talk to you, respond to you quickly, like all your social media posts, and always be available to you. She may also keep the conversation going for hours and show curiosity about your interests and opinions.
– She may create opportunities for you to be alone with her. She may invite you over to her place, suggest going somewhere private, or find excuses to get close to you. She may also lean in, touch your arm, or whisper in your ear.
– She may tease you playfully or challenge you in a friendly way. She may joke about your flaws, poke fun at your quirks, or dare you to do something. She may also laugh at your jokes, even if they’re not that funny.
– She may mirror your actions and expressions. She may copy your gestures, posture, tone of voice, or facial expressions. She may also match your pace, energy level, or mood.
– She may act differently around you than other people. She may be more shy, nervous, excited, or attentive when you’re around. She may also blush, giggle, fidget, or smile a lot.
– She may try to make you jealous or test your reaction. She may flirt with other guys in front of you, mention her exes, or talk about other guys who like her. She may also ask for your opinion on other guys or compare them to you.
– She may share personal or intimate details with you. She may tell you about her dreams, fears, secrets, or fantasies. She may also ask you about yours or show interest in your passions and goals.
– She may give you subtle hints or signals that she wants more. She may say things like “I wish I had someone to cuddle with”, “I’m cold”, “You smell good”, or “You have nice lips”. She may also ask you questions like “Do you have a girlfriend?”, “What do you look for in a girl?”, or “What are you doing later?”.
– She may act protective or possessive of you. She may stand up for you if someone insults you, defend you if someone criticizes you, or comfort you if someone hurts you. She may also get annoyed if someone else tries to flirt with you or take your attention away from her.
– She may try to impress you or get your approval. She may show off her skills, talents, achievements, or hobbies. She may also agree with your opinions, compliment your choices, or praise your actions.
– She may be more physical with you than other people. She may hug you longer than necessary, kiss you on the cheek, hold your hand, or cuddle with you. She may also initiate contact more often than usual or find excuses to touch you more frequently.
– She may say yes to everything you suggest. She may agree to hang out with you whenever and wherever you want. She may also go along with whatever plans or activities you propose.
If you notice these signs, chances are she likes you and wants
you to make a move. Of course, the only way to know for sure is to ask her directly or make a move yourself.
However, before you do that, make sure you respected boundaries and consent. Don’t assume that she wants more than she’s comfortable with or pressure her into anything. If she says no or shows signs of discomfort, back off and apologize. Remember, the most important thing is to be respectful and honest with each other.
Good luck!
